The devil is laughing when us married folks sleep in separate beds.7. There might be more, but my plane is landing and I have to turn off my computer. Now get in bed.***READ THE FOLLOW UP TO THIS BLOG – 8 REASONS MY HUSBAND WON’T HAVE SEX WITH ME If you want to learn more about how to experience great sex in a marriage then check out our newest workshop Best Sex Life Now with Craig and Jeanette Gross and Dave and Ashley Willis.Because so many people ask us about the “Mormon Rules” I’ve put together a list of the many things that are required of Mormons in order to be a faithful member in “good standing”.1.

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I don’t know how that happened, but in my marriage, sex is a two-way street. If those walls stay up, then guys, there is no way it’s happening tonight.

It takes both of you to make it work and it is mutually beneficial for both parities. So, Let’s answer this question: Why doesn’t my wife want to have sex with me? I don’t know your spouse and your situation, but if I had to guess, it’s one or two of the following things.1. This could be a situation involving abuse or rape at a younger age. Then one day at 22 I got married and it went from a lifelong RED light to a GREEN light in one day.

I hear women hold sex over a lot of men’s head and I just laugh. She thought marriage would solve this, but these issues have never been addressed thoroughly and have caused her to just not be interested. That’s a tough mental switch to make, and a lot of women still feel that sex is dirty and a bad thing not understanding it is a gift from God.

Just because women aren’t as visual as men doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy sex as much as men. The Bible pretty much says that married folks should be having sex and lots of it. My gut is that if you could help her process some of these things or encourage some counseling, then that could be a great start to help her find the healing she needs.2.

(No, really it says that the only time to refrain from sex is for a period of time for fasting and praying and that is only for a period of time, otherwise the devil will use that to keep you apart.)The reality?

Out of everyone I know, the married people have the suckiest sex lives.

I have been married 15 years and that is an expectation and goal we both have set. They’re my best, most productive hours of the day because no one is awake in my house and my phone or email are not getting blown up. So, we put our kids down early so we make sure we have time to connect but I know even though she would like to have sex, if we get too late into the evening, it’s not going to happen. Just so you know, the longer men go without sex, the more they desire it, and the longer women go without sex, the more they don’t need it.

(Oh, and one last bit of advice: quit trying to stick it in her butt.) – Tweet This! Women need to be touched, kissed, and hugged all the time, not just when you want action. I am going to recommend trying to have sex every other day. If you’re not having sex, then you’re probably masturbating and looking at porn and she probably knows it.

Masturbation has taught you one thing: how you like it. )You get off in your favorite position and think sex is all about what you like. I met a guy whose wife hadn’t had an orgasm in 10 years of having sex. Really work to achieve this together and if not at the same time make sure both of you have the option. the microwave analogy, because I think you’ve probably already heard that. My wife loves to have sex and I think we have a great sex life. Some of them might not have anything to do with you, but some of them sure do. We have no clue that something we said this morning pissed off our wives and they are still upset, or how you’ve been treating her all week or all month or your whole marriage has forced her to build up walls between you. You start looking at porn to get what you need and then your sex life is non-existent.