I was really happy about it because I considered this guy a colleague and thought it was really nice of him to want to keep in touch with me. He was driving a rented sports car, a little flashy for a guy on a conference trip but ok.He was about 15 years older than me, but that didn't matter because this was a dinner between friends. He was dressed like a man going for a night at the clubs as well. He suggested we see a movie and I was a little surprised but agreed.

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I felt beyond "used." I had to give plasma so we could go on this crappy outing and then I got sick so he proceeded to drink all the beer! ) I was very naive and I felt so embarrassed for him, that he thought that this was even remotely close to acceptable human behavior, that I downplayed the whole event and tried to pretend it had never happened. When I asked what the h--- he meant, he replied that in India, the women do all the cleaning, so I'd better get started. I did a summer internship at a museum years ago when I was in college.

Now that I'm older, I realize the "scene" I should have made once we arrived at the blood bank and gotten out of the whole thing! He was the man, he had the plan for the date and I just went for the ride. After the term ended and I went back to school, I got a call from one of the researchers I worked with over the summer.

He wanted to meet and have dinner because he was going to be in the city.

I couldn't get up and leave because I was hooked to an IV!

After the donation was over we went through a fast food drive-thru and got some sandwiches and then a case of beer.

Once we got out in the sun at the reservoir, drank the beer, and ate the sandwich, I proceeded to feel sicker than I have ever felt before and throw up all over the beach. There were many men from all over the world at the U.

That was 17 years ago and I still can remember how sick I felt. I met one from India and after we had coffee one afternoon, and he invited me back to his place.

On a first date when I was a freshman in college, we were going to go to the reservoir for the afternoon on a beautiful Indian Summer day.

First, we had to "get some cash." He took me to a blood bank to donate plasma!

We got extra cash since it was the first visit for both of us and while I was there, my bed "won" the drawing and I received an extra .

I was so shocked by all this all I could do was sit frozen and hope it was a bad dream.